Why This?
Most people’s sex lives are shaped by misleading cultural conditioning and disconnection from body intelligence — leaving them unfulfilled, frustrated, or stuck in mediocrity.
Even those who seem to “have it all” still often feel something essential is missing. Even men with “good” sex lives are nowhere near what’s possible.
It’s not for lack of desire — it’s because we were taught the wrong things about what really makes it happen.
Whether your sex life is struggling or solid, you probably sense there’s another level you haven’t accessed yet. Trust that sense.
Mastering sex and orgasm — and giving her experiences she will never forget while claiming your own deepest fulfillment — is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. The power it unlocks reshapes not just your sex life, but your entire self.
Why This?
Most men settle for a fraction of what’s possible in their sex lives.
Even those with “good” sex lives rarely experience the depth of pleasure, connection, and aliveness that’s easily available once you know how.
It’s not because they lack effort, and definitely not because they lack interest – but because we’ve lost touch.
Whether your sex life is struggling or solid, there’s a depth of satisfaction you sense is possible but haven’t yet accessed. That instinct is right.
Our purpose is simple: to give men the ability to have total sexual fulfillment.
This isn’t about just better technique or improving performance. This is about god-tier love making, intense sexual gratification, and being complete as a man.
The Real Cost
Relationships erode and/or we slowly die inside of them
Diminished confidence and creativity in all areas of life
Reduced respect, trust, and appreciation from more than just your partner
Sex gradually becomes less frequent, more predictable, and increasingly unsatisfying over time
The weight of knowing you’re unfulfilled and something better is possible
The Real Cost
Most men overlook their sex lives — not because they don’t want great sex, but because they don’t realize what it’s costing them to stay where they are.
They tell themselves it’s “fine.” That this is just how things are. But the dissatisfaction doesn’t go away.
The cost isn’t just missing out on sex. It’s the slow erosion of confidence, energy, and creativity. It’s the quiet strain on your relationship and on your manhood.
Here’s how it shows up:
Relationships lose their spark
Self-esteem, creative power, and physical vitality dim
Intimacy never fully lands
Diminished respect and appreciation of others — especially your partner
Sex becomes boring, infrequent, and unsatisfying
The weight of knowing something better is possible
The Wives and girlfriends shared:
The Men Said :
Here’s the truth: If you don’t learn certain critical things about sex and intimacy you shouldn’t expect these results.
What Men Experience
Testimonials are from real clients and their partners. Names and identifying details have been modified to protect privacy.
What Their Wives and Girlfriends Say
So, here’s the deal:
After you join this program, you will have the best sex you’ve ever had.
This will happen over and over again. For both you and your partner.
You’re going to be one of the best. Better than 99.99% of men who are not in the program.
If you promise to show up and do the work, I promise you will get this outcome.
What You'll Get
What You'll Get
Imagine waking up already feeling it —
not hoping, not pretending, not trying — simply knowing:
You are a sexually powerful man.
A sexually abundant and desired man.
The Work
What we need isn’t just more physical techniques. It's unlocking your innate sexual intelligence and drawing from key insights in the incredible lineages of practice that have come before us.
Presence — the potency that makes you come alive and melts her open
Attunement — listening with your body so you stop guessing and start knowing
Body Intelligence — sex that flows through your whole body, not your thinking mind
Erection & Stamina Mastery — natural, reliable erections without drugs; lasting as long as you want
Mature Ejaculation™ — control your release and channel energy instead of losing it
Understand Her — meeting the complexity of female sexuality, from body to mind to the nature of her orgasm and deepest satisfaction
Performance Beyond Performance — the most powerful sex isn’t learned — it’s lived. When you’re aligned, authentic, and in your power, the extraordinary happens naturally.
My focus is simple: to help people have great sex lives —and to understand sex as a vehicle for realizing their potential — sex so good it makes you a better person.
What Happens When You Do This Work
You feel grounded and alive in your body.
Women feel more at ease and more drawn to you.
Your partner opens more and meets you in ways she never has before.
You stop chasing connection — you become the source of it.
Not because you learned a trick or nailed a technique, but because something undeniable has landed in you.
It’s not about being broken and becoming someone else. It’s about clearing away what was in the way and liberating what’s always been inside you.
What Men Report
Mind-blowing sexual experiences they didn’t know were possible
Increased authenticity, creativity, and good feelings in all area of life
More confidence, energy, playfulness, and flow
Relationships get better over time instead of worse
The respect and ease that only come from real sexual power and abundance
“100x ROI” on the investment
If You’re Ready To Have The Sex Life You’ve Always Wanted,
This Is Your Invitation to Something Extraordinary
Whether your sex life is struggling, fine, or even good, there’s another level — one that aligns with what matters most and opens the door to connection and experiences you may not have imagined. The path there is simpler than you think — because it works with your natural design, not against it.
The work is:
Deep & Expansive — shows you what you never thought possible
Human — honors your unique wiring and needs
Accessible — no spiritual fluff or complexity
High Integrity — built on values, service, and compassion
It’s practical, fun, and grounded — no spiritual fluff, just real results… It incorporates the full range of sexual expression — from tender intimacy to raw passion — and has been celebrated by men, women, and couples from all backgrounds and walks of life. From brand-new relationships to 30-year marriages now reporting sex better than their honeymoon… spiritual seekers, construction workers, and top executives… young bucks and seasoned men who thought their glory days were over — the work works.
Unlock Your Full Sexual Potential
Our revolutionary method is rooted in ancient wisdom, neuroscience, and pioneering
insights that elevate your intimate life to a new and profound level of satisfaction.
The Foundation Begins with the Four Pillars of MoS™
Presence & Attention
The Foundation of Mastery
When you're fully present, in your body with relaxed present-moment attention, you’ll give and receive more than ever before. This quality of attention is a crucial part of what makes her melt and open — she feels it instantly — and it’s how you’ll
Open, awaken, and invite her ranges with deep penetrative masculine presence
Eliminate performance anxiety permanently through expanding your capacity and getting out of your head
Enjoy sex more than you ever thought possible (yes, really)
Stay open and present during intense pleasure, horniness, and her deepest orgasms (when most men disconnect)
Attunement & Receptivity
The Language of Sexual Love
Impeccable lovers don't follow techniques they listen. Develop your intuition to know exactly what to do in each moment to access more range, intimacy, and soul-nourishing fulfillment for you both.
Learn "Quantum Listening" to sense what would feel most beautiful before acting
Create safety that allows bodies to open and her to fully surrender — this leads to uninhibited, feral, open-hearted sex
Invite her most slutty sides by making space for her true essence to come forward
Understand the Selfish/Selfless Paradox: Transcend the common trap that most men fall into, and learn to honor female pleasure from
Openness & Conductivity
Access Your Full Power
Learn to hold massive sexual change and channel sexual energy through your entire body and hers, creating experiences that continue expanding and alchemizing rather than peaking and ending.
Clear blockages fast with simple easy-to-follow practices
Experience more relaxation, flow, and calibration
Channel sexual energy into full-body pleasure and power
Discover the simple secret to endless stamina
Experience a wide variety of orgasms and sustained orgasmic states without drop off
Authenticity & Coherence
Beyond Performance to What’s Actually Real
The most meaningful sex we can have doesn’t happen from perfectly executing techniques — it happens from true authenticity and coherence. When you're fully aligned in your energy, expression, and exchange, the most profound, extraordinary, mind-blowing sexual experiences emerge organically.
Express yourself without hesitation or self-mistrust
Embodied the full ranges of your sexual expression — the dark and the light and everything in between
Unlock your actually sexual power to naturally evoke her deepest openings and orgasms and experience profound intimacy and shared joy
Ride intense horniness, with love and appreciation, into expanded states of consciousness that impact your entire being and relationship
Learn the Higher Sex Operating System and Transform Your Intimate Life Forever
This isn't about techniques, positions, or performance. We all have a "sexual operating system," but most people’s systems are corrupted by cultural conditioning and disconnection from their bodies—which only leads to limited sexual experiences.
The Four Pillars of Limitless Sex
Pillar 1: Presence
The Foundation of Mastery
When you're fully present, in your body with relaxed and focused attention, she feels it instantly. This quality of attention is a crucial part of what makes her melt and open – and it’s how you’ll enjoy yourself like a [mature and comedic analogy].
Open and awaken her with deep penetrative masculine presence
Eliminate performance anxiety permanently through expanding your consciousness
Enjoy sex more than you ever thought possible (yes, really)
Stay centered during intense pleasure, horniness, and her deepest orgasms (when most men disconnect)
Pillar 2: Calibration
The Language of Sexual Love
The best lovers don't follow techniques—they listen. Develop your intuitive abilities to know exactly what to do in each moment for more pleasure, power, and connection.
Learn "Quantum Listening" to sense what would feel the most juicy and aligned before acting
Create the deep safety that allows her complete trust and surrender, and leads to uninhibited, hot exploration
Open her most slutty sides by meeting her true sexual essence
Understand the paradox: Why focusing on her pleasure actually limits it (and what to do instead)
Pillar 3: Openness
Access Your Full Sexual Power
Learn to conduct sexual energy through your entire body and hers, creating experiences that continue expanding rather than peaking and ending.
Clear blockages with simple practices
Experience more relaxation, joy, and creativity
Transform sexual energy into full-body pleasure and power
Discover the simple secret to endless sexual stamina
Experience a wide variety of orgasms and sustained orgasmic states without drop off
Pillar 4: Authenticity
Beyond Performance to True
The most powerful sex you can have isn't from skills—it's congruence. When you're fully aligned, the most profound, extraordinary, mind-blowing sexual experiences emerge organically.
Express yourself without hesitation
Learn why "trying to please her" blocks her deepest pleasure
Access your authentic sexual power that naturally evokes her deepest openings and orgasms
Ride intense horniness and love into expanded states of consciousness
Learn the Higher Sex Operating System and Transform Your Intimate Life Forever
This isn't about techniques, positions, or performance. We all have a "sexual operating system," but most people’s systems are corrupted by cultural conditioning and disconnection from their bodies—which only leads to limited sexual experiences.
The Four Pillars of Limitless Sex
Pillar 1:Presence — The Foundation of Mastery
When you're fully present, in your body with relaxed and focused attention, she feels it instantly. This quality of attention is a crucial part of what makes her melt and open – and it’s how you’ll enjoy yourself like a [mature and comedic analogy].
· Open and awaken her with deep penetrative masculine presence
· Eliminate performance anxiety permanently through expanding your consciousness
· Enjoy sex more than you ever thought possible (yes, really)
· Stay centered during intense pleasure, horniness, and her deepest orgasms (when most men disconnect)
Pillar 2: Calibration — The Language of Sexual Love
The best lovers don't follow techniques—they listen. Develop your intuitive abilities to know exactly what to do in each moment for more pleasure, power, and connection.
• Learn "Quantum Listening" to sense what would feel the most juicy and aligned before acting
• Create the deep safety that allows her complete trust and surrender, and leads to uninhibited, hot exploration
• Open her most slutty sides by meeting her true sexual essence
• Understand the paradox: Why focusing on her pleasure actually limits it (and what to do instead)
Pillar 3: Openness — Access Your Full Sexual Power
Learn to conduct sexual energy through your entire body and hers, creating experiences that continue expanding rather than peaking and ending.
• Clear blockages with simple practices
• Experience more relaxation, joy, and creativity
• Transform sexual energy into full-body pleasure and power
• Discover the simple secret to endless sexual stamina
• Experience a wide variety of orgasms and sustained orgasmic states without drop off
Pillar 4: Authenticity — Beyond Performance to True
The most powerful sex you can have isn't from skills—it's congruence. When you're fully aligned, the most profound, extraordinary, mind-blowing sexual experiences emerge organically.
• Express yourself without hesitation
• Learn why "trying to please her" blocks her deepest pleasure
• Access your authentic sexual power that naturally evokes her deepest openings and orgasms
• Ride intense horniness and love into expanded states of consciousness
This Is Your Invitation to
What You've Always Wanted
The path to mind-blowing, soul-enriching sex isn’t about adding more techniques to your repertoire. It’s about stripping away what’s blocking your natural sexual intelligence and power.
Your body already knows how to create the most profound sexual experiences imaginable. This work doesn’t just cover what to do — it shows you how to get out of your own way and let your innate sexual abilities show you the way.
Whether your sex life is struggling or merely “fine,” there’s an entirely different level waiting for you — one that aligns with your deepest values while opening doors to pleasure and connection you probably have never imagined.
The path to mind-blowing sex is actually simpler than the path to good sex.
Because you’re working with your natural design,
not against it.
The Men of Substance™ Work includes:
OFFERINGS
See where you stand with the universal building blocks of a great sex life.
Your complete foundation for sex that keeps getting better — essential tools and insights to awaken, elevate, and deepen your sexual life.
More than a mastermind — an extraordinary community for men committed to sexual expansion, success, and abundance.
WHY NOW?
You’ve wanted this for a long time — even if you couldn’t name it, or didn’t feel “allowed” to want it. This key part of your dream life is yours to claim. To savor and enjoy to no end.
No one showed you how, and that’s not your fault. But it is your responsibility if you want something to change — and you can change it now. Every day you settle for mediocre sex, the gap between what you have and what’s possible grows.
The good news? The work really works. Men consistency report radical improvement immediately, with the foundation that will carry for years and decades to come.
Foundational Books
Getting Started – Married Man’s Guide to the Bedroom
Immediate solutions to bedroom challenges and the essential tools to have the best sex possible.
Core Material – HigherSexOS
Your complete foundation for having more awesome and fulfilling sex perpetually.
The Bedroom Genius Black Book
The hidden keys to unlock your innate sexual intelligence and potency.
Men’s Sexual Mastery Membership
More than a mastermind—an extraordinary community for men committed to ongoing sexual discovery, success, and personal growth.
Private Coaching and Mentorship
The most direct and accelerated path.